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I find dating as a BBW extremely hard. Mostly this is due to my own insecurities, however I find that the dating pool is limited. I especially hate it when you meet online because people have this image of a bbw and it is almost always someone in about average weight range, just a little chubby in all the right places. Does anyone else have this problem?

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BookOfSouls85 · 36-40, M

There are a few dating sites and chat sites out there for BBW's, but it tends to be the same members on every site.

Also, the idiots who treat BBW's as a fetish/toy have helped destroy the vibrancy of the community imo.

There are decent guys out there who like BBW's, just have to search hard for them like they are no doubt searching for you.

Kellyfish · 26-30, F

I have been on a few sites, but as you mentioned it’s mostly the same people. Also, a lot of people 20+ years older than me. I am just a little too young for 20 years older lol. But anyways, maybe I’ll just meet someone in a bar the old fashioned way. Haha @BookOfSouls85

ilovebbw46 · 61-69, M

I love BBW the way you are. I’m in N NJ. R U?!

Willomk1 · 46-50, M

guess im in the first category

Ikarosswings0 · 36-40, M

Are you still looking?

Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F

Been there. End up between two groups. Those that fetishize the unhealthy weight and lifestyle. Or those that think the fat girl hates herself and if you say she’s pretty she’ll sleep with you. Neither is a good choice. It’s part of why I worked on my body.

Kellyfish · 26-30, F

I am currently doing the same! I really don’t want to be a fetish and I also don’t want to be a pity or anything of that matter. I’ve lost weight, gained it back, and now I’m starting again because I feel more confident when I do so. It’s just hard out here for a bbw lol! @Mrsbetweenfatandfit

Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 26-30, F

@Kellyfish I wish you luck maintaining motivation and finding a person to love you for you

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