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I Feel Detached From the World Sometimes

Warning! If you hate dramatisations of one's own life, then feel free to pass on by, I would, personally. If you don't need Someone else's life story in yours, I don't blame you.











I feel detached from this world, for the past couple of years I have just thought the way everyone around me is going to get the best out of their lives is if I wasn't it anymore... I don't mean I was that important in their lives just that they shouldn't feel the need to include me in anything they were doing for example heading on nights out(gigs) and outings, so I just dropped the communication with them all... Them all being my friends, and rightfully so they broke communication with me... Well now I don't know if I'm any better or worse off for doing, but I think I did the right thing.

I know I'm just trailing off on a bit of a random vent, but I mean, they were the ones dragging me up off my arse to do stuff with them. And I just feel like they deserve better than to be dragging "people" like myself all around the place. Sure I didn't like what I was doing at first but when I got into it was fun... I feel like I lost that fun aspect to my life too, along with losing contact with old friends.

The thing is now I'm struggling to make connections with the new people I meet in my life, I feel like I don't know what I am doing when meeting new people or how to talk them. There is a lot of confusion on my part, and now I feel like I'm sending the wrong signals to everyone I bump into now. And it's this confusion that's leading me to feel this way, because of it I feel like I have no response, which makes me less acceptable in society because they think I'm stupid or dumb. I just feel like I'm at a loss the whole time.
I believe you're in your mid-twenties to mid-thirties, right?

Its perfectly normal to feel that. And when you're in your forties, you'll automatically connect with your old friends again, trust me.
As for new friends, it's not going to be easy, but if you have a common hobby like bowling or hiking then that'll help you bond faster with new friends.

 
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