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My crush turned me down because I’m too nice. I thought guys likes nice girls.

I’m a very nice, sweet, good girl. I am sort of a goody two shoes, I tend to have expectations of people being nice and respect me (failed).
He flat out told me that I’m nice, but I’m way too nice. I talked to him earlier tonight and he seemed bored. He says he frankly finds me too agreeable, and also I make him do all the work by planning the day (virtual). He says I’m way too easy and easy is boring. He said, “You’re okay but you’re too nice. You always bug people to “be nice”, you agree with everything people say....sometimes, you don’t even stand up for yourself or have you own opinion. It’s okay to have an OPINION. I wish I didn’t have to drag it out of you. You keep telling people that you’re nice which I creepy. Also you’re not being honest with yourself. You gotta push back a little! I like a girl that’s sweet but also challenges me. I like feisty, strong girls that aren’t afraid to be themselves and speak their minds and to put it bluntly, I can’t see myself with someone like you. No Layla. Besides I see you only as a friend anyways. Frankly I like your best friend because she’s confident, feisty, sassy and being herself, but she has a boyfriend. Plus she’s short.”
See that’s it right there! He likes shirt girls and he’s 6’5 or 6.
I was told that I’m too passive aggressive.
JBird · F
1. He's not a nice guy, you're better off without him.
2. I am sorry but he's right: you have to stand up for yourself rather than expecting everyone to be nice to you. Stop acting like a victim.
AutismGirl18 · 18-21, F
@JBird So it’s about my disability? You are insulting my disability!! I always get yelled at and pushed around and people say it’s my own fault. You’re SO RUDE
JBird · F
@AutismGirl18 *facepalm* where did I say it's your disability? Read my comment.
AutismGirl18 · 18-21, F
@JBird You brought it up. So guys don’t like “nice girls”
I don’t understand why some guys like feisty girls. What’s so great about them?
I’m not acting like a victim.
Don't worry about him. You'll find someone.
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