I Have A Penpal
I have a Vietnamese penpal. We have exchanged emails for about a half year. I knew her in a woman's forum. She was active to contact me and ask for my email.
She is a very active girl. She is the only one who is easy to share and contact me. It is nice to read emails from an unknown person but sometimes I do not know how to react. Here are some annoying times:
1. After getting my email, she asked me about my facebook so I gave her. Do u think that she would add me ? No, she just wanted to see how I looked like, then sent me an email that made me surprised. " You are not beautiful. Your facial skin is not good either. It has a lot of scars". => I really do not know how to response her saying because I do not like to explain for any strangers. All of my friends know that I do not post any pics in my facebook. I just use facebook to keep in touch with some close friends and family. All of the pictures in my fb were tagged by them. I love all of those pictures although I was ugly in pictures. I love the way how true smile of family and friend have. She must zoom those pictures to check for any imperfect pots to ensure that I was not as beautiful as she was. I do not feel interested in explaining, so I just responded politely and changed the topics.
2. After telling her that I am Buddhism vegan, she responded me " What do you eat vegetables for while you use a lot of cosmetics? Many cosmetics were tested on mice and it is sins.". I really did not know how she could know that I used many kinds of cosmetic because I never shared this with her. I love cosmetics but I am not crazy to try all cosmetics that people recommend in the forums, although I can bookmark the information to review later. Once again, I do not know how to response her assumption
3. She has recently sent me an email that I do not know how to reply again. In her email, she wrote " I just got a new job. I know that you just study in a cheap college and you do not study well so you must be very difficult to find a job". I wonder how she could find information about where I study and my GPA because I have not shared my education about my life with her.
I know that she just uses me for valuing herself and as a topic to chat with her friend in Asia. I really feel appreciate her enthusiasm to keep in touch with a person who prefers sharing knowledge to daily life. Living in America is really an advantage for people to approach you.
She is a very active girl. She is the only one who is easy to share and contact me. It is nice to read emails from an unknown person but sometimes I do not know how to react. Here are some annoying times:
1. After getting my email, she asked me about my facebook so I gave her. Do u think that she would add me ? No, she just wanted to see how I looked like, then sent me an email that made me surprised. " You are not beautiful. Your facial skin is not good either. It has a lot of scars". => I really do not know how to response her saying because I do not like to explain for any strangers. All of my friends know that I do not post any pics in my facebook. I just use facebook to keep in touch with some close friends and family. All of the pictures in my fb were tagged by them. I love all of those pictures although I was ugly in pictures. I love the way how true smile of family and friend have. She must zoom those pictures to check for any imperfect pots to ensure that I was not as beautiful as she was. I do not feel interested in explaining, so I just responded politely and changed the topics.
2. After telling her that I am Buddhism vegan, she responded me " What do you eat vegetables for while you use a lot of cosmetics? Many cosmetics were tested on mice and it is sins.". I really did not know how she could know that I used many kinds of cosmetic because I never shared this with her. I love cosmetics but I am not crazy to try all cosmetics that people recommend in the forums, although I can bookmark the information to review later. Once again, I do not know how to response her assumption
3. She has recently sent me an email that I do not know how to reply again. In her email, she wrote " I just got a new job. I know that you just study in a cheap college and you do not study well so you must be very difficult to find a job". I wonder how she could find information about where I study and my GPA because I have not shared my education about my life with her.
I know that she just uses me for valuing herself and as a topic to chat with her friend in Asia. I really feel appreciate her enthusiasm to keep in touch with a person who prefers sharing knowledge to daily life. Living in America is really an advantage for people to approach you.
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