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I Have a Husband In Prison

Well, he's my fiance, we've been together 3 years and he was incarcerated yesterday. It's been looming over our heads..what sentence he'd get. We were so hopeful for probation or even house arrest. He was sentenced to 11 months. Last night and today have been my first two days without him. He's my best friend in the whole world, I'd give up anything for him. I'd do anything for him. It kills me that I can't be with him, I haven't been away from him since we first started dating.
I had been in an absolutely terrible relationship before I met him, I was abused sexually and physically for years. When he came along, he just knocked down every single wall I had. He encouraged me to go to therapy, and I did. He encouraged me to make a new life for myself, and I did.
Hes so kind and generous. I've never met someone so genuinely kind in my life.
I haven't stopped worrying about him. I cried all day yesterday and last night, and most of the morning today.
I just feel like my heart broke in two and he has the biggest piece.
I miss him so much.
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QueenOfSorrow · 31-35, F
@Sarahcantstop He knows it was stupid, I know he wishes he could go back. I'm pissed about the whole thing, but that's not going to make me leave him or think less of him.
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SharonP · 41-45, F
Just so you know there is a Woman/Mother in here who's husband has been Jailed for 12 years, 11 months will be over in no time
QueenOfSorrow · 31-35, F
@SharonP My heart goes out to her, I can't imagine her struggle:(
SharonP · 41-45, F
@QueenOfSorrow Thank you, and also if you are in the UK 11 months he will be out in April just in time for Easter, so get Christmas over and your on the countdown :)
QueenOfSorrow · 31-35, F
@SharonP I'm in the US, but pushing for him to be out by his birthday! 🙂
vader2112 · 46-50, M
That's very difficult, but at least it's not 11 years. Try and stay busy. Visit and communicate with his as much as possible. Try to be positive when you visit. I'm sure he's hurting as much as you are, if not more. This is all easier said than done, but hang in there you two.
QueenOfSorrow · 31-35, F
@vader2112 I really appreciate that. I've been trying to figure out different activities I can get into to stay busy in a positive way.
vader2112 · 46-50, M
@QueenOfSorrow You're welcome.
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
Wow. I am so sorry you are going through this. You don't mention whether he committed the crime or not so I assume he did. You mention it was looming over your heads in your relationship though so look at it this way. You know what the punishment is and knowing is so much better than that gray cloud hanging over your head. You know now it will be 11 months or less until this is no longer looming over your head. You need to be strong and keep up your health and strength for him because he is going to need your strength just as much as you need him. You will have my prayers as you walk this journey. I hope he is able to parole out early so you can be reunited.
nahright09 · 41-45, M
hopefully for you guys with good behavior he'll get out serving a fraction of the sentence
QueenOfSorrow · 31-35, F
@nahright09 The judge did say he was eligible for good time. With how polite and well behaved he is, I'm hoping that plays in his favor!
nahright09 · 41-45, M
@QueenOfSorrow If he can stay out of trouble, join programs and or any sort of education/training/therapy, that'll help too
yeronlyman · 51-55, M
sorry for your loss... honestly the 11 months may appear hard, but i just have to be honest (of course i dont know the facts)... the real sentence will be how he is treated in his life after sentence for having spent time in prison... job prospects etc

he needs to get his life back on track. He sounds like a good guy to you and that is a very very good sign
a man committed to a woman can take on the world

i do hope it works out for you

sincerely
I hope he comes out soon. Praying for a miracle for you both. 🙏
lily88mercy · 26-30, F
@QueenOfSorrow
You deserve a big hug, QofS! 🤗
I hope those eleven months fly by and he's back in your arms and life.
QueenOfSorrow · 31-35, F
@lily88mercy You're such a sweetheart! Thank you
SW-User
Sorry to hear hear this.
SW-User
Use the time wisely
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QueenOfSorrow · 31-35, F
@Tootoa He got popped with my weed and meds
SINAI · T
This shit almost sounds poetic.

 
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