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I Am Confused

How is being clingy and needy? This person and I used to message back and forth, he was the one who messaged first like everyday, but now just less and less. He has said he is busy, and he's back but not talks much as often, I miss the old him. Now I'm waiting for his reply again. Should I drop one more message? Should I talk with him about this? Would it be clingy and creeps him even far away? Or as everyone says just let it go? Ah my heart aches. :(

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wonkavite04 · 22-25, F

I clicked on this thinking you'd be like me (worrying about being too clingy, needy, or a burden despite the bf constantly reassuring that I'm not and showering me with love and attention), hoping I could reassure you. Unfortunately, I think he may just be losing interest. The relationship may be going downhill. Wait a bit to talk again, in person or over the phone if possible instead of text. Discuss your relationship and ask where he thinks it's headed, and ask how it can be improved. Work together to improve, don't let yourself do all the work! Best of luck.