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MrPerditus1 · 61-69, M
Big time shy and not sure how you might feel as well as maybe not wanting to ruin a friendship if the feelings are returned the same.
AkAtSUki · F
@MrPerditus1 we weren't friends. We were classmates
MrPerditus1 · 61-69, M
@AkAtSUki Then it was shyness and uncertainty most likely. Which, if you aren't in a friendship with someone, it can be harder to just approach someone and say you like them. Rejection can be a scary thing to some people, very.
AkAtSUki · F
@MrPerditus1 I feel that 👍 that's understandable. He told me this over my social media dm.
MrPerditus1 · 61-69, M
@AkAtSUki Safe way to save feelings if they aren't returned. :)
AkAtSUki · F
@MrPerditus1 I gave him a chance to meet up but he didn't make the effort to find time.. eventually I met someone else... and he's got a woman now.
MrPerditus1 · 61-69, M
@AkAtSUki Well, then it was probably for the best. Wishing you luck and happiness. I know I've stuck my neck out more than once, got kicked a few times, but met some amazing ladies that shared many good memories with and learned a few things as well. Though, even now in my late 50's, can still feel like an idiot teenager if put in the right circumstance. lol
AkAtSUki · F
@MrPerditus1 i see well at least we're all happy huh 😏
MrPerditus1 · 61-69, M
@AkAtSUki I hope you are. I know I'm not with anyone now, but not looking for it at the moment. Feel I need to do more work on myself before I let anyone in. But maybe someday I'll get there again. :)
@AkAtSUki maybe he wasn't as single as you think he was if he's for a woman now? He could have been talking to her at the same time trying to decide who he liked better?
Also, does it matter if he likes you if you are with someone and he is with someone? His motives are sounding suspicious that he told you now.
Also, does it matter if he likes you if you are with someone and he is with someone? His motives are sounding suspicious that he told you now.
AkAtSUki · F
@CleverFunnyNameGoesHere he told me before I got in a relationship
@AkAtSUki that's better then. Well if you are happy, then there is no reason to worry about why he didn't tell you.