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I Am Disgusted By The Evil In This World

I look at evil like I look at love - so many people have so many different definitions of it. You could write a few lines defining it, and if you wrote them well then people would look at them and say "yeah, that's a pretty good description of evil/love," and yet you could also write a thousand pages describing either one, and you'd barely scratch the surface. Evil, like love, is a force that permeates every facet of our existence, whether we realize it or not. The echoes of the actions of evil people color the world and all of our experiences in it, just like love does when we have it in our lives (and when I say love, I mean platonic, familial, and romantic).

I believe that evil is as real as love. People mis-define love all the time, seeing selfishness and dependency and thoughtless coddling and so many other things as being parts of love, when they're really a kind of anti-love. And yet, love is real. It really exists, underneath all of our imperfect definitions. That's how I see evil - it's easy to mis-define, but it truly does exist, underneath all of our imperfect definitions.

As for how I define evil: I would have to write too much to be able to really explain it. M. Scott Peck does the best job I've ever seen in his book "People of the Lie: The Hope For Healing Human Evil." All I can say is that I've seen the taint that an evil person can put on a space, and on a group of people. I've seen the life and liveliness slowly drained from people's eyes, in ways so insidious that they never even noticed that it was happening. I've seen people in swoon to evil, lost to so many parts of reality. I've seen the ways that reality becomes demented and distorted around them over time. I've seen the way that the miasma lingers after they leave, like the aftermath of a disaster, with people feeling dazed and lost even though the worst is over. And all of this, I've seen happen in contexts where most of the people who suffered through it have no idea that it even happened. They felt it, they experienced it, but they never understood why they felt it, or where those feelings came from. Evil is real, and by-and-large it walks freely in this world, unopposed and unseen.
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What about the best definition of love you've seen?
BlueDiver · 36-40, M
I'm not sure if love is "just-one-thing" to the point where one definition is necessarily better than certain other definitions. I think that one good definition is that love is care-ful - it takes the time to really consider what's best for the loved one. It "handles with care," which ironically sometimes means acting on instinct without thinking much at all, because you recognize that there are a lot of situations where agonizing over the proper response or whatnot will just make the other person uncomfortable and feel like they have to tiptoe around. Love is everything, because it takes the time to figure out what's best in every situation. Sometimes love is stern, sometime's it's gentle, sometimes it's punitive, sometimes it steps back and lets people make their own mistakes. All of these - and many, many more - are examples of love in some situations, and all of them are also NOT love in other situations. Love is about taking the time to recognize the difference, so that you can apply the right tools to the right situations.

But of course, love also recognizes that if you try to be too perfectly loving in every situation, you'll just burn yourself out and become useless to everyone, so love also figures out which situations require you to be truly care-ful, and which situations you can give yourself a break in.
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Dalegend27 · M
whats the evilest thing u ever seen

 
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