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I Miss Him

He just disappeared after sending me a lot of messages while I was asleep, thinking that I'm talking to others and that he is unable to help me emotionally as well as the others. Then he apologised for giving me more stress right before the first day of school. Then he is just gone. I am completley heartbroken. Ii am a wreck now.
I dont understand why he doesnt understand that he is the one who understands me the most emotionally and mentally and provide me with the best comfort I could ever have. And that leaving is just making it worse. I miss him so much

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Mrsbetweenfatandfit · 31-35, F

I don’t know either of you personally. But I myself was involved in a short relationship with a man who was often doubting me. He talked lowly of himself. There were these amazing highs where I felt so connected only to later feel so low as he guilted me for things others who loved me said were bullshit. I don’t know what your situation is but love isn’t meant to hurt. There shouldn’t be such big highs & low lows frequently. That’s unhealthy it’s not balanced & is a recipe for failure & heartbreak. It can be difficult to see from the outside when you are so far in a situation. But try & look at whatever is going on without bias & picture it as your close loved ones relationship. If you would be unhappy to see them in it, it could be time for you to reconsider the dynamic in your relationship. I’m sorry you’re struggling. Best of luck to you

Colourflame · 22-25, F

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit Thank you so much

splendid · 41-45, M

@Mrsbetweenfatandfit You speak words of wisdom.