I Hate Being Ugly

There is an article in Business Insider you really should read.

It dissects a woman's popularity on a social site and analyzes how many messages she receives based on men's perception of her looks.

[quote]If someone doesn't think you're hot, the next best thing for them to think is that you're ugly.[/quote]

This is only meant to prove if you look for logic in attraction, you will look a long time.

Most of us are neither hot nor ugly - except to the right (or wrong) person. We simply are. Nobody runs screaming, nobody fights to sign us for a modeling contract. When the time is right, some indefinable combination of characteristics makes us attractive to somebody.

Believing you are ugly is the best way to make it come true. Who you are will never be apparent if you hide her. Most observers accept us on our own terms. If we behave confident and assured, they will assume we have reason to be.

Beauty and ugliness are both illusions.

Being ugly is a matter of perspective.
It is in no way comparable to cancer. Cancer is not some mild flu with a guarantee of recovery.

idk, cancer like... kills people

I have cancer. I'd rather be ugly

Wow not even close to cancer. Specially considering that you may be ugly and have cancer at the same time.

Beauty is one of the least democratic aspects in life. Just let it be. The good thing is that no matter how you look, someone will find you attractive. Just don't be shallow.

There's always something that can be done to improve one's appearance. Even without that, a great personality can totally compensate for it.

That's a horrible thing to say. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Cancer kills people every day. A lot of times, no, you can't win against cancer.

There's always things you can do to improve yourself. If you're fat - get some exercise and get a proper diet. All it takes is some discipline. Playing the victim card doesn't help anyone. But I understand being called ugly, but I changed myself. You can too if you take action.

I know that feeling

Find a nice guy with impaired vision. He will like you for who you are, not what you look like. And will be happy that you are interested in him.

Why haven't you just accepted it yet?

Toxic thinking...pls speak to a counselor or trusted friend about this.

Who bloody says you're ugly ?

Looks aren’t everything to everyone.

Dido.

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