I Hate Being Ugly
Being ugly is worse than cancer. At least you can win against cancer. Being ugly means you'll never be good enough for anybody. You'll die alone. Nobody will ever want you or love you.
31-35, F
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Mamapolo2016 · F
There is an article in Business Insider you really should read.
It dissects a woman's popularity on a social site and analyzes how many messages she receives based on men's perception of her looks.
This is only meant to prove if you look for logic in attraction, you will look a long time.
Most of us are neither hot nor ugly - except to the right (or wrong) person. We simply are. Nobody runs screaming, nobody fights to sign us for a modeling contract. When the time is right, some indefinable combination of characteristics makes us attractive to somebody.
Believing you are ugly is the best way to make it come true. Who you are will never be apparent if you hide her. Most observers accept us on our own terms. If we behave confident and assured, they will assume we have reason to be.
Beauty and ugliness are both illusions.
It dissects a woman's popularity on a social site and analyzes how many messages she receives based on men's perception of her looks.
If someone doesn't think you're hot, the next best thing for them to think is that you're ugly.
This is only meant to prove if you look for logic in attraction, you will look a long time.
Most of us are neither hot nor ugly - except to the right (or wrong) person. We simply are. Nobody runs screaming, nobody fights to sign us for a modeling contract. When the time is right, some indefinable combination of characteristics makes us attractive to somebody.
Believing you are ugly is the best way to make it come true. Who you are will never be apparent if you hide her. Most observers accept us on our own terms. If we behave confident and assured, they will assume we have reason to be.
Beauty and ugliness are both illusions.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@SW-User ugly kills you on the inside. Makes you want to commit suicide.
SW-User
@IAmNothing that's not the same thing but keep finding new ways to justify your victim complex
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@SW-User Regardless you are dead either way.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@chuck7882 At least you arent ugly.
Trevo · 26-30, M
Wow not even close to cancer. Specially considering that you may be ugly and have cancer at the same time.
Beauty is one of the least democratic aspects in life. Just let it be. The good thing is that no matter how you look, someone will find you attractive. Just don't be shallow.
Beauty is one of the least democratic aspects in life. Just let it be. The good thing is that no matter how you look, someone will find you attractive. Just don't be shallow.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@Trevo I'd rather have cancer.
SW-User
There's always things you can do to improve yourself. If you're fat - get some exercise and get a proper diet. All it takes is some discipline. Playing the victim card doesn't help anyone. But I understand being called ugly, but I changed myself. You can too if you take action.
Prisoner69 · 26-30, M
Master1A · 70-79, M
Find a nice guy with impaired vision. He will like you for who you are, not what you look like. And will be happy that you are interested in him.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@Master1A No thanks
Master1A · 70-79, M
@IAmNothing Ah so this IS just a pity party you are generating for yourself... Never mind.
Reject · 26-30, M
Why haven't you just accepted it yet?
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IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@Reject my life already has been ruined
Reject · 26-30, M
@IAmNothing Sure, just don't tell me you've accepted it and you're only venting when you've been doing this same thing for years and it's been nonstop. I'm asking why you don't just accept it already. Clearly there's no other options for you.
Wiseacre · F
Toxic thinking...pls speak to a counselor or trusted friend about this.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@Wiseacre what friends lol
Wiseacre · F
@IAmNothing :-(
AliceTinker · 51-55, F
Who bloody says you're ugly ?
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@AliceTinker everyone
AliceTinker · 51-55, F
@IAmNothing Nope not everyone. You haven't met everyone. If people around you are calling you ugly it's time to find different people. Ugly or beautiful is subjective.
SW-User
Looks aren’t everything to everyone.
SW-User
Dido.
Sinnerwithaheart · 56-60, F
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