I Have Family Problems

My dad's a psycho and sadist. He used to hurt me and my family. On top of that, he humiliate us in public. What's more sad is that he even hurt my poor autistic brother too. We have to endure him when he visits us every 3 months from Dubai, where he used to work. At times, he have a favorite child usually my sister while he taunts the other, of course he always ignores my brother. Even though, my father beat and mentally tortures my mom, she cooks and take care of him. But that's not enough for him. He never saw us as a family but as slaves. This went on for a long time, until he lost his mind enough to loose his business. He lost his money and was stuck in Dubai. Yet, we sent him money so that he can come back. But that was a big mistake. When he came back, he threatened us. We had enough and left him and moved to a city. My sister and I got a job and started earning for the family. We live peacefully now. But only thing that bugging us is my sister's and my marriage. In India, to get married, father of the bride and groom should be present. Since, I knew my father very well, he will try to ruin the marriage. By Indian standards, separated parents means there is something wrong with the children too. So most Indian families do not want their children to get married into that kind of family. Other than that, we're happy.