I Do Not Need Anybody Who Does Not Need Me
Individualistic... All my life there is one thing I always try to avoid at all cost. Get dependent. To anyone. Except my family.
If I can do it myself, I will do it myself. I don't really share my secrets with my friends so I'm pretty introvert. I enjoy company, but no company is not that bad. What's so bad with having lunch or dinner alone?
A little research here says that "Individualistic Doers are quiet and realistic, very rational, extremely matter of fact person. You strongly cultivate your individualism and enjoy applying your abilities to new tasks. But you are also a very spontaneous and impulsive person."
"Titles and established authorities don’t impress you in the least. If someone is competent in your eyes, you have no problem occasionally listening to him/her. If he/she is not, there is no way that you’ll obey his/her instructions just because he/ she has got a sign with “department manager” hanging on their door. Furthermore, you are all for equal rights and would prefer that everybody have the same rights."
I think this statement above perfectly captured what I want to explain. I am very realistic, rational person, which makes a little emotionless, yes. Spontaneous too which sometimes gets me into trouble. And it's true that I don't look up to people only because of their titles. Intelligence and wisdom can't be measured.
If I am needy that is either I'm really helpless or I trust you that much to show you my vulnerable side.
If I can do it myself, I will do it myself. I don't really share my secrets with my friends so I'm pretty introvert. I enjoy company, but no company is not that bad. What's so bad with having lunch or dinner alone?
A little research here says that "Individualistic Doers are quiet and realistic, very rational, extremely matter of fact person. You strongly cultivate your individualism and enjoy applying your abilities to new tasks. But you are also a very spontaneous and impulsive person."
"Titles and established authorities don’t impress you in the least. If someone is competent in your eyes, you have no problem occasionally listening to him/her. If he/she is not, there is no way that you’ll obey his/her instructions just because he/ she has got a sign with “department manager” hanging on their door. Furthermore, you are all for equal rights and would prefer that everybody have the same rights."
I think this statement above perfectly captured what I want to explain. I am very realistic, rational person, which makes a little emotionless, yes. Spontaneous too which sometimes gets me into trouble. And it's true that I don't look up to people only because of their titles. Intelligence and wisdom can't be measured.
If I am needy that is either I'm really helpless or I trust you that much to show you my vulnerable side.