I was rude therefore it was my fault.

Damage can’t be undone but maybe THAT person was doing the damaging? Don’t be so hard on yourself. Apologize but don’t beg. If this is a decent person, you can try to apologize, salvage. But if they don’t accept your apology, give it a couple of days, maybe even a week after that let go. They may be emotionally unstable in a worse way. But anger should not be the end of a friendship unless it’s ongoing emotion that displeases you.@deadblueroses

Sounds like he is guilty of something and was afraid you caught on to something. If you don’t treat him that way AND if he doesn’t apologize, I’m not sure he is the best person for you. He over reacted and “forced” you to listen, that’s crossing the line. BIG time. Unless you’ve done that to him in the past then he’s just treating you the same. But you deserve someone as good and kind as you are, even if you have to move to a different or bigger city to find someone @deadblueroses

Run the other way. I am so sorry.@deadblueroses although I’m so glad to hear you are a peaceful non violent communicator. If you exist, someone as kind as you exists