I don’t know anymore

Bro, those friends are giving miserable advice. To be working hard and taking care of your parents is commendable and a great job. Keep going :)

You come first. Remember that. What's the use in being there for everyone if you are going through something? You seem incredibly resilient, reliable, and hard working. Those are good trait but when you're exhausted, make sure to relax

I'm proud of you and I don't even know you :)

I’m 20 and the total opposite of that ..

You’re fine because it sounds like you love your family and you’re doing well. It’s true that you need to make time for yourself, to be healthy. But that’s your choice. Not your friends choice, -with who and how you do that.

I think you should feel sad for your friends that they do not have deep love or conviction , that they do not have the opportunity or heart to give of themselves to others as you do. But also, I caution you to keep from telling people everything you do for others unless you continue to want to be misunderstood. Then sometime I meet a giver and I wonder are they doing it all to get other peoples attention and praise? They complain about all the good they have to do, so is it real? Only you know the answer to that.

Anyhow, if you don’t want to be miserable...
never settle for a partner/anyone who doesn’t give as much as you do!

You are right: family first. If your "friends" (or even your girlfriend) don't understand that, then they are not real friends. You can't choose your family, but you can choose your friends.

you never. ever. ever need to consistently give out suuport, ESSPECIALLY if you're not getting it back, they're not your friends

You are a very beautiful person, and I admire you very much, good for you, fight for what is right for you 😊❤️

Go to sleep 😴