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I Know You Don't Understand At All, You Don't Get It

How could you? With your strong marriage to your soulmate, clever and cute kid, nice house, great job and amazing social life, how could I ever expect you to relate?
Please stop asking me what plans I have for my birthday. The answer is, very little. Now leave it be and move on. Not everyone has huge birthday celebrations like you.
You don't understand what it is to be me. It isn't your fault entirely but all you have ever known is success, personally and professionally. It isn't like that for me. You don't know what it's like to be 32, single, childless, living at home, dealing with a mentally ill sister and what it is like to feel so lonely and scared of the future that as soon as the lights go out at night, you just sob. So please, for just one moment, get your head out of your own backside and realise that not everyone leads such a charmed life as you do.
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Paliglass · 41-45, F
Maybe (and please don't cyber kill me lol), maybe, she wanted you to say "I don't know, probably not much but would you like to come along" maybe? - Please don't kill me! (((hugs))) if ok.
Jenni855 · 36-40, F
I doubt it, I am not doing anything anyway @Paliglass
Paliglass · 41-45, F
@Jenni855 I know this would be scary but what if you said to her "you know you asked about my birthday, well I'm not doing anything so would you like to go out for dinner?"

That way you know one way or the other if she's asking because she likes you and wants to spend your birthday with you or she's being nosey or she's just a bitch.

If she starts to say no, say don't worry about it and you know one way or the other. You loose nothing if she says no and gain more definitive clarity that she's nosey or a bitch. If she says yes then you may gain a friend you didn't expect.

Just an idea 💡

And have a very happy birthday 🎂 regardless of what you do or if you're alone 💖 💐