Messaging feature isn't there yet, maybe it's the reason. But still, they could talk to you by answering your posts. Though, I'm not sure if I added someone without talking to them first but if I did and they feel the same way as you do then I apologize.. I never thought adding could actually make someone uncomfortable. My intention is usually either to make friends or if I like his posts and stuff. And I may continue to do so xD
@Pinkrainbowkisses, I am pretty sure you are right. I don't mind guys in their 30's but even then I would rather people try to talk to me before adding me. I will block who I have to, but I don't think these guys are considering how much they might be making people uncomfortable.
AmandaHugNKiss you have an inviting username :) You just have to be clear if you have limits about who you want to talk to, because otherwise it is wide open here. Also remember you don't have to add people back and you can block people if you need to.
@AmandaHugNKiss...With a FRIEND button, all it takes is a point and a click to make "friends" with a female they'd never have a chance with in real life. It's more than a bit creepy.
It's the 50+ pervs who think they're 20 and somehow think your age and younger has interest in them lol. There's a lot of those here.. but also some great ones too.
I find it strange that people just add you anyway without knowing you at least a bit. Unless it's just for following your questions but that functionality is not here yet.