I Wish I Had The Ability To Erase Memories
So that ex everyone told me to move on from... its very hard. I have this constant urge to talk to him everytime I'm on my phone, I can't help it. & we have this thing where everytime we were together while dating I'd always look at the clock right at 12:34 so it's kinda our thing... we had been fighting the last time I talked to him because I found out he's been hanging out with that other girl still since I left (they work together so it makes sense for them to wanna be cool since his friends are cool with her, but I had issues with her in the past and he blocked her and made like he wasn't her friend the whole time I was with him) you can read the other stories if you'd like to know more on that.
So when I saw the time I took this as my opportunity to kinda lighten things that's been going on.. and I think he still cares about me, but he's confusing the shit out of me. & honestly he never tells the truth so I know it's not good for me... how do I stop this love? Or at least learn to ignore it?
He'll always choose her over me, because he'd rather have his friends and they choose her.. it's like he doesn't control his own mind ever. He told me the reason he hung out with her and went to the casino is because everyone did... I just don't get how they started hanging out because he always talked shit about her even his friends. It's like everyone was afraid to be her friend while I was around because I didn't like her, but honestly I had dropped the shit along time ago because I thought my boyfriend had her blocked and wasn't communicating with her.. and all the drama started again when I found him talking about how he didn't want to be with me to her.
So I know I shouldn't care... yet he was my first so this is very hard for me, especially when it seems like he still loves me.