I lead from the heart and not my mind - and that's gotten me in trouble a few times. I just don't know any other way. I'm not a destructive person. I just love too much, I guess.
There is nothing wrong with leading from the heart, and being a loving person. Continue to be you, but just know that some people break hearts. Some day you will find that special person that also leads with their heart. :) Oh wait, we just have to have that coffee date so that you will see for yourself. :P