I Know White Privilege Exists

@Melpomene Exactly. I'm just middle-class. I'm primarily pissed because of how dishonest people are, of how they fake responses to others and how they choose their own little selfish lives. Some of us are foolish enough to believe everyone speaks the truth, meanwhile we get suckered and they get to do what they want. I constantly have to suppress myself and meet other people's needs and my needs are never met.

@Existentior And that's bad because..?

@Melpomene Because loneliness actually kills you and because it's immoral. You need to value morals.

@Existentior Wow, hold on monsieur. How is being lonely immoral?
Second, yeah, it can kill you if you can't learn to enjoy it and/or make friends but at some point you really have to learn to be on your own because people come and go.

@Melpomene No, being lonely isn't immoral. What's immoral is lying to other people about your availability and then doing what you want behind their back. Saying "I'm busy" while you're really not. Sure, I'll have to learn to be on my own, nonetheless, loneliness really kills you. In the end, you better have some friends or you're going to die sooner.

@Existentior 1. Well, isn't also immoral to assume someone's lying to you just so they wouldn't hang out/help you?
One time, I got invited by a new friend to her birthday party. The day of the party, I woke up with horrible back pain and decided it's better to cancel than show up and be all grumpy and after all, we weren't really close friends and she was social and I'm sure had plenty of people there. I didn't specify my reasons as this was something that I'd complain if people knew about it so I apologised and said "something came up, I can't make it, I hope you have a good time"..you get the idea. A couple of weeks later I find out from my best friend, who apparently got quite sick and couldn't make it to the party of a beforementioned friend, that the B-day girl got insulted because we both didn't show up. My best friend and I didn't get in contact with each other before the party so we didn't know and she (my bf) heard that she (B-day girl) is insulted by someone else.
2. If they do that often, they don't think about you as a friend or they are really busy.
3. I know loneliness kills, that's why some people get pets (duh).
4. We're all going to die sooner or later anyway 😐️

@Melpomene I want to be happy, not miserable. What I'm talking about is when you perpetually never get to meet anyone, ever. It's been nearly three decades I haven't had a bond with anyone or met anyone. Let that sink in..

@Existentior Have you tried? Are you doing it the right way?
Just like flirting, when trying to achieve and uphold a friendship, it looks like people can notice those who are kind of desperate, you know what I mean?

@Melpomene I HAVE FUCKING TRIED!!! AND FUCK OFF WITH THAT COMMENT!!!

@Existentior So, you are trying too hard... maybe you should relax and enjoy in life and friends will come to you.
No reason to curse or yell though, I'm just telling you how it looks. 😒 I know you're frustrated but that's pretty obvious and I doubt anyone would want to be friends with someone who's desperate just to have a friend, instead, you could do things you love and go to places you want to see and eventually, you'll meet up people.
On the other hand, why would anyone be friends with you? What do you have to offer?

@Melpomene You're decades behind me. Come back when you've learned how shitty life really is.

@Existentior
As someone who was both alone and surrounded by friends, I'm quite sure I know how societies work and it looks like you're the one behind. If only you'd stop being so miserable and learn to enjoy life by yourself without having to depend your happiness onto others, you'd attract a lot of possible friends. But if you can be happy only when there are other people around you, it means you'll never be happy because people leave all the time. And also because chasing something just doesn't work out and no one wants a needy and arrogant friend... it's a law of attraction.
Since you mentioned you're almost "three decades" old, I'm pretty confident you didn't see more than I did (even though I could "compete" with much older people when it comes to knowing about people). Don't worry, you'll learn. I just hope it won't need you a lifetime. :)

@Melpomene Look at your age, you little kid. I'm done with you.

@Melpomene Now go choke on some dick. Law of attraction bullshit. Females are fucking despicable.

@Existentior Indicator 1 of immature personality: judges people by age. Though I can't really blame you, I had lots of friends of various ages so I'm guessing you can't know how that works 😐️
But I find those insults quite...uncalled for. I tried to help you and so far you only insulted me (multiple times). With that attitude I'd be surprised if you ever get a friend... or a romantic partner. You can't expect something new to happen if you keep doing the same mistakes.