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Yes I’m married. Yes I’m 19. Yes he’s way older than me. No I don’t think I’m moving too fast. No I don’t regret anything.. Why is everyone trying to make me feel bad about getting married? 😂 like what the hell. And It’s mainly my family members who are asking me these things like what even.

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SW-User

19 is pretty young. You're still growing and should've had more experiences with people before settling down. I know 'cause whenever I find a Dom I think I can't possibly find someone better than him but then I do. I mean staying in a relationship is fine but should've given it a few years before actually getting married.

SW-User

I guess they're just worried that you'll look back and feel like you wasted a lot of time, or that he might be taking advantage of you due to the age difference. Do they know your husband very well? Maybe if you all spent more time together they would understand how important this is to you.

JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F

Because it is not uncommon for people as young as you to make impulsive decisions they end up regretting. It is your family's job to care about you. They want to make sure you aren't putting yourself in bad situations.

That is not to say they are right but maybe you need to help show them that your relationship is sound and that you are happy.

TwiddlerofThumbs · F

Because you’re 19 and anyone older than you can see how that has a huge huge opportunity to be problematic.

UserNameSW · 46-50, M

People are worried, because they dont want you to be hurt.

JBird · F

Give a few years and you'll understand

jimjim1969 · M

Its your life, go where you want

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