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What’s the longest you ever dated (or were involved) without being in love with the person?

thomaso · 26-30, M
A year max. I misread the question at first. That was after falling out of love and wanting to fix the relationship. Oh how naive.
4thdimensiondream · 61-69, M
maybe some time apart would help bring you together forever in long run. That happened to me.
thomaso · 26-30, M
@4thdimensiondream she did a 180 on her personality. Took me some time to figure out she wasn't the same person I fell in love with at all. Still I fondly remember the good times. Just wasn't meant to be lol.
4thdimensiondream · 61-69, M
@thomaso prob a good idea you didn’t take it even further than when things were good.
TexChik · F
I only dated the man I ultimately married . At 3 mo I knew for sure he lived me . At 6 mo I stopped kidding myself and realized I lived him too .
4thdimensiondream · 61-69, M
@TexChik Yours is a pretty classic love story that is not so easy to find!
TexChik · F
@4thdimensiondream I don’t know . He said it was love at first sight for him . Falling in love was the absolute last thing I wanted or thought I needed... then suddenly he just looked different to me and that glow settled over me . Then I knew ... I was hooked ! 😊
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
That's a hard question. It's not like one day it turns off like a tap. You just realise one day.
4thdimensiondream · 61-69, M
i was thinking in a different way. I mean you aren’t usually in love when you start dating right? So I was wondering how long people out there dating give relationships.
KuroNeko · 41-45, F
@4thdimensiondream again is a very subjective thing.
I’ve never been in love but my longest relationship was 4 months
SW-User
Three years.
SW-User
@4thdimensiondream That it is. I think we love each other but aren't in love.
4thdimensiondream · 61-69, M
@SW-User I can def relate to that! Good luck.
SW-User
@4thdimensiondream Thank you.
malizz · 70-79, M
About 6 months then she confessed she had a boyfriend all along.
tiggerandariel13 · 41-45, MVIP
24 years and still together
4thdimensiondream · 61-69, M
@tiggerandariel13 but happy?
I never have.
4thdimensiondream · 61-69, M
@DarkHeaven never been in love or never in a relationship without love?
@4thdimensiondream Never been in a relationship without love.
Platinum · M
Probably two months max.....
MarineBob · 56-60, M
About a year
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