Do u ever meet someone after years and say, "WTF I was interested in that" ?

There was a girl in my life from ages ago and yeah she got to me a little🤷‍♀️. Sorta got her completely out of my life, well my old one. Then I came out and thought she was a nice girl, should try to friend up. Meet her and sorta catch up, I'm thinking, "she is more damaged than me."
Still was ok with being friends tho and that she didn't see coming: friendzoning is not cis privilege girls.