I'll say a little here, I'm homeless now, lost everything in a fire, my siblings turned on me after the fire. I'm working on getting off the streets and doing well and I have many friends I love and who love me, some who've offered me sanctuary, but I want to keep them as friends so I don't move in. My best friend now is a 25 year old surf pro/musician who is like family. My own kids are great but I won't move in and complicate their already complicated lives. People will love you if you let them.