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I think I’ve found my fetish.

The other night, I was watching the first episode of the new season of Blindspot when things that I’ve known about myself for a long time, sort of coalesced.

Clearly Jamie Alexander is hot. In fact, in terms of her physical attributes, she ticks pretty much all of my boxes. But, it wasn’t her aesthetic appearance that had me at the edge of my seat, eyes glued to the TV screen. It was the scenes where she beats the living crap out of three or four CIA operatives who have been systematically torturing her. And then, it was the scene where she fights her former FBI partner and romantic interest.

Don’t get me wrong, my fetish is not women fighting. It’s not women beating up men. It’s strong women. It’s women who are intellectually and physically strong. I want a woman who could just as easily be behind me, pushing me forward as she could be in front, leading me on. But most of all, I want her beside me as my equal.
HeavenBesideYou · 51-55, F
Could be for that very same reason I'm always looking for a man with lots and lots of heart.
sarabee1995 · 22-25, F
That's how life should be.
room101 · 51-55, M
It can be Sara. We just have to keep fighting for it to be that way and keep looking for those rare souls who see life as we do.
Scribbles · 31-35, F
There are two things that bother me about this post.

One: Why did you choose to call it a fetish?

Two: Clearly Jamie A. is not just hot...but SMOKIN' hot! :p
room101 · 51-55, M
I called it a fetish in order to attract all the pervs............of course, I'm joking. A fetish is something that we feel a strong connection with and a strong desire for. It can be sexual and it can be non-sexual. I simply wanted to convey that depth of feeling.

And yeah, you're right. She is SMOKIN' HOT!
Scribbles · 31-35, F
Ah, that makes sense. My definition of fetish includes a bit more...

I generally see a fetish being a small part of a whole. A connection or desire that supercedes the whole of what one to speak. Which is why so often "some fetishes" have the stigma of abnormality or irrationality.

You...well you seem to have a solid idea of what you want and I think it carries far more depth and contains more of a whole picture then a "fetish" has. That can't be THAT rare to want a strong, beautiful, equal as a partner. Even if finding said person isn't always all that easy.
berangere · 70-79, F
A very progressive way to look at women,in a world where they can be so maligned and suppressed by so many men!
sarabee1995 · 22-25, F
Merry Christmas & Happy Holidays! 😁
bentonlake · 61-69, F
Cool statement.
room101 · 51-55, M
thank you :)

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