I Have A Boyfriend

@SW-User Well that is one sad story, with you wasting valuable years of your life that you’ll never get back. Sad too, that you’re willing to settle for someone else’s man.

@SW-User Well okay but this will not end well.

Who wants it to last a lifetime

But then doesn't infidelity means there was already something wrong with the relationship

@SW-User Yes you are right but in the marriage vows they both vowed for better or worse in sickness and health and in good times and bad. it took the two of them getting married and it will take the two of them to break it up. Even though one of the partie are doing nothing well doing nothing is breaking it up because they are suppose to fight for the marriage. If they are unhappy then try to fix it and if they cannot well then do it the right way and get a divorce.

@updown2020 cheating as it is means ,breach of trust and when trust is not there wats the meaning of a paper relationship, though nowadays people think it's ok to cheat n remain married.so I don't think I m doing anything wrong .
We all are adults and nobody can force us to do anything,we all do by our own free will .

I m fine in this relationship,so I continue, anyways I m not looking at it as a life long commitment,so I know there won't be any heart breaks .

As for my bf n his wife,that is for him to decide,n presently he wants both of us.

If his wife knows that her husband is cheating on her ,which means that their relationship was anyways critically ill ,,then it's her decision to continue or leave.

@meemo70 that's his n his wife problem not mine