I've just got these beauties. They're the highest toe-post sandals I've seen, with slim heels just over 4 inches. Now all I need is some summer weather...
I worked up to it, in more ways than one. I started with cowboy boots with heels just over 2 inches, and expected half the population to stare and laugh, but there was no reaction. I've increased the height to over 4 inches, still with no reaction. Most people are so wrapped up in their own little world that they don't even notice even when my heels are plainly visible, like when I'm on a train, and I've walked miles across London and elsewhere. Actually, I'm a bit disappointed in a way! Perhaps I should try stilettos. All my public heels so far have been wedges or blocks, so not too noisy. I assume you know of the two main websites about men in heels: hhplace.org and heels4men.net?
I really think its awesome that you have the courage to wear heels out in public,guys like you are an inspiration to those of us who can only hope to one day have that sort of courage that you have