I Wish Society Wasn't So Cruel
Well mostly everything I post upsets people to the 10th degree even though all I'm trying to do is share my honest concerns. It sure isn't easy being me, but I'm not 1 to complain despite all the crap I deal with I really hold like 90% of it back. I just wish I could be free to speak my mind with out all the hate / confusion.
This is 1 of the few posts that's actually about me.
It seems that so few people share my opinion about...anything and the people that do share my opinion still keep their distance. Why are people so offended by the truth and facts ? We shouldn't have to always disguise or sugar coat disappointments.
I feel cursed, cheated, and abandoned. Other people seem to have certain joys in their life (family, pets, career,relationship ) that I have been without for so long.
It's hard not to feel angry but I try my best.
I think it's bullshit that most people see or hear a person down on their luck or feeling depressed and just think that person is complaining, when they are legitimately hurting. Why do they shy away from these people? Why do they feel like they must only surround themselves with only "happy" people? Why is it so hard to try and cheer someone up? lend and ear or a hand?
People that act Happy 99% of the time, are fakes; running or hiding from their problems instead of admitting them or facing them by trying to make improvement. I never want to be around those type of people. If you're not being genuine then you don't deserve any friends.
Now I'm not saying being sad or bitter is the only way to be genuine, of corse not, but certainly there is a medium that should exist. The problem seems to be that no 1 identifies or relates to medium.
I think it's a major social problem in our society that everyone is demanded and expected to be happy & enthusiastic or else you get shunned. I just wish people would be more open minded, open hearted and give others a chance. That shouldn't be so hard.
This is 1 of the few posts that's actually about me.
It seems that so few people share my opinion about...anything and the people that do share my opinion still keep their distance. Why are people so offended by the truth and facts ? We shouldn't have to always disguise or sugar coat disappointments.
I feel cursed, cheated, and abandoned. Other people seem to have certain joys in their life (family, pets, career,relationship ) that I have been without for so long.
It's hard not to feel angry but I try my best.
I think it's bullshit that most people see or hear a person down on their luck or feeling depressed and just think that person is complaining, when they are legitimately hurting. Why do they shy away from these people? Why do they feel like they must only surround themselves with only "happy" people? Why is it so hard to try and cheer someone up? lend and ear or a hand?
People that act Happy 99% of the time, are fakes; running or hiding from their problems instead of admitting them or facing them by trying to make improvement. I never want to be around those type of people. If you're not being genuine then you don't deserve any friends.
Now I'm not saying being sad or bitter is the only way to be genuine, of corse not, but certainly there is a medium that should exist. The problem seems to be that no 1 identifies or relates to medium.
I think it's a major social problem in our society that everyone is demanded and expected to be happy & enthusiastic or else you get shunned. I just wish people would be more open minded, open hearted and give others a chance. That shouldn't be so hard.
36-40, M