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I Was Abused By My Family

It was mainly by my older sisters. They hated me. And when my parents got divorced they blamed me for it. And when I said I wanted to live with dad they scream that I don't get to choose who I live with. After that things just got worse and worse. Verbal abuse turned into physical abuse. And no matter what happened mum never believed me they were always the good girls. Even after they pushed me down the stairs and put me in hospital. It was always my fault. And after dad tried to gain custody of me and lost the court case mum sent me to a boarding school just to spite him.

But when I was 16 I lost it. While mum was out, I told them what I thought of them and that I was leaving. Before I could even get to my room they attacked me leaving me with a broken nose and a black eye. But I retaliated knocking out my oldest sister but the other manage to get behind me and start kicking me to the ground. After she thought I couldn't move she checked on her sister and I knocked her out. As quickly as possible I packed up some clothes and some money and got on a train to Bristol to escape them.
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WOW, my mom was an abusive individual. Not physically as much as it was emotional torment, although she used to flick me in the lips with her fingers and smack me in my face when I said something she didn't like to hear. She had over 20 different affairs on my father and she and my father are still married. I left home when I was 21, I moved to a homeless shelter in downtown Cleveland Ohio in the USA. I don't have much of a relationship at all with my mom nor my father, my father has no opinions of his own anymore because he doesn't wanna make waves with my mom. I resent my folks and out of spite and anger I no longer choose to have a relationship with them.
meemo70 · 51-55, M
that's sad.. but you were (still are I hope) a brave girl to knock them down and escape..
olderdad · 61-69, M
Wow....you'are a survivor!!
olderdad · 61-69, M
@karenof2: That's great.
karenof4 · 36-40, F
@melbonly: yeah but what i had to go through too much just to be happy
olderdad · 61-69, M
@karenof2: You had a tougher road to travel than most people....but you got there and that is your victory.
ArtieKat · M
I thought I had it bad because my 2 older sisters used to taunt me by calling me names. Well done for getting out as soon as you were old enough to.
karenof4 · 36-40, F
thanks but feel what i had to go through to leave them it wasn't truly worth it. it wasn't till a few months after that i started to be happy with my choice
ArtieKat · M
@karenof2: I dread to think of how the problems might have escalated, had you stayed. You know the old adage: you can choose your friends but you can't choose your family. I know it's trite but put all of your love into your new family and, in time, I'm sure the painful memories of your birth family will wane.
Diesel95 · 36-40, MVIP
Good girl we have never talked but so proud of you for getting out like that as a fellow victim I know how hard it is to get away from that you go girl
karenof4 · 36-40, F
Thank you
updown2020 · 61-69, M
Wow well how are things now? Well depending the laws there you might have had the choice who you could live with.
karenof4 · 36-40, F
well i now live with my husband and have children of my own
SolidHeart · 46-50, M
Oh, I never heard a brutal family story like this before. I hope now you found love (husband and children) to compensate you for your lost childhood love.
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karenof4 · 36-40, F
Thanks
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greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
So glad you got away from them. You are a survivor!
karenof4 · 36-40, F
Thanks but the damage was done by then
Pretzel · 61-69, M
i'm so sorry karen
glad you made it out
MissKira · 31-35, F
Been on both ends myself...

 
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