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Is this true, for you?

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I do not agree. It sort of reduces someone to an object and dehumanizes them. Oh I get it. And I get disliking some behavior, blunders, or feeling hurt. But how can you separate the two. It seems robotic. The way they made me feel.. [i]was[/i] their mind, their body, their essence, their words, their giving of themselves. That, IS them, to me.

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ImperialAerosolKidFromEP · 46-50, M

It hardly seem dehumanizing, just selfish

Magenta · F

@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP You mean selfish to feel that way towards someone?

ImperialAerosolKidFromEP · 46-50, M

@Magenta it's selfish to think only of your own gratification rather than the intimacy that comes with a healthy relationship. Of course there's another thing you might be able to call it: honest

Magenta · F

@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP Ok thanks. I think I understand you.
Well, sometimes one behave in ways that cause someone to feel that way maybe. I can understand that, but it's not me. The darkness in a relationship doesn't negate the light.