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Is this true, for you?

I do not agree. It sort of reduces someone to an object and dehumanizes them. Oh I get it. And I get disliking some behavior, blunders, or feeling hurt. But how can you separate the two. It seems robotic. The way they made me feel.. was their mind, their body, their essence, their words, their giving of themselves. That, IS them, to me.

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ImperialAerosolKidFromEP · 51-55, M

It hardly seem dehumanizing, just selfish

Magenta · F

@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP You mean selfish to feel that way towards someone?

ImperialAerosolKidFromEP · 51-55, M

@Magenta it's selfish to think only of your own gratification rather than the intimacy that comes with a healthy relationship. Of course there's another thing you might be able to call it: honest

Magenta · F

@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP Ok thanks. I think I understand you.
Well, sometimes one behave in ways that cause someone to feel that way maybe. I can understand that, but it's not me. The darkness in a relationship doesn't negate the light.