I’m too scared that fight and conflict with break out? I’m too scared to speak my mind and I’m tired of being treated like a punching bag 😔😭
One time I was on my room with my best friend and one of my cousins just barged into my room. He said, “I need your charger.” I said, “You just barged into my room.” He said, “Shut up and give me your charger, NOW!” I gave it to him and he did say thank you. My best friend was like, “Why do you let people do that to you?”
Then “No don’t make excuses! You can’t let people talk to you like that. I would not have let him if he talk to me like that. You better stand up for yourself girl. You’re a woman. You’re three months away from being 18. I’m not always going to be around. Same with your family and our other friends. Nobody is going to always stand up or you. You need to learn to do it yourself. Also when your aunt yelled at you and you complained that nobody stood up for you and just sat there. Well they probably thought you were going to fight back. That’s a sign that you need to fight for yourself. They aren’t going to fight for you.”
I don’t wanna get into an argument.
Then “No don’t make excuses! You can’t let people talk to you like that. I would not have let him if he talk to me like that. You better stand up for yourself girl. You’re a woman. You’re three months away from being 18. I’m not always going to be around. Same with your family and our other friends. Nobody is going to always stand up or you. You need to learn to do it yourself. Also when your aunt yelled at you and you complained that nobody stood up for you and just sat there. Well they probably thought you were going to fight back. That’s a sign that you need to fight for yourself. They aren’t going to fight for you.”
I don’t wanna get into an argument.
18-21, F