Be aware...

I like SW a lot but experience has shown a fair few in our community possibly have fairly deep-rooted problems that their patterns on here might soothe them out of temporarily, or distract them, but can be a pain for those with whom they interact.

There are people on here I like a lot though I still largely keep my distance because, as with anywhere online (and offline) trust takes time to earn and build.

Also people might hide elements of themselves until they've managed to create some kind of bond, before showing truer, and possibly hurtful aspects of themselves. Unfortunately some of those patterns, those people may have no control over. It's no excuse though and for them to acknowledge they have a problem is a start. Just saying because I was pretty badly hurt a while back and it's no good.