I Didn't Wait Until Marriage [Didn't Wait Until Marriage]

[c=#BF0080] Honestly, it's an extremely personal decision. It's different for everyone and everyone should do what they feel is best for them. There is deff at least two sides to it. On one hand, I think it can be really good to wait, because then you truly value it and yourselves and save it for someone you really love and trust and care about and that feels the same way about you. And then you can truly focus on getting to know eachother and building a real deep genuine friendship that is what the best lasting relationships should be based on cuz that's what lasts. But then on the other hand, I think it can be highly overrated and can set some people up for dissatisfaction. I've heard that for some girls who have valued and protected their virginity so intensely, they can come to think of it as their worth (and it's not at all!) And it can be hard for them to give it up even after marriage because it almost feels wrong. Also, in some ways, if you've ever only been with one person, you may start to wonder what you are missing and what it's like to be with other people. You may feel like you settled and missed out. You also can feel like until you've been with a few people it's hard to know what you actually want and need and like and don't like. So there are deff lots of different things to consider and there are always pros and cons to any decision you make. So realize at the end of the day that it's very personal and you should do what you feel is right and best for you. And deff make the decision for yourself, and not just do what your parents or friends want you to do because it is your life and your choice, not theirs. They made and live with their own choices and you have to as well. So listen and consider others opinions and thoughts on it, but ultimately you should make the choice. There is no right or wrong answer to this. Only your choice and what's right for you. 😇[/c]

I can't imagine marrying someone without sleeping with them first. How else are you going to find out if you're compatible in bed? Saddling yourself for life (theoretically) with someone whose needs you can't fill or who can't fill yours is a recipe for misery, IMHO.

Depends on if you think your body and it's worth means something to you. If you are cool with it being used or abused treated as a product which is fine a lot of people enjoy that then go for it but I would consider it heavily first

It's an antiquated ideal.

As long as it's consensual it is your choice entirely but as long as your unsure it's probably not best to go ahead last thing you want is regret afterwards

My wife waited, I didn't. Turns out we were completely incompatible, suffered in a sexless marriage for 11 years and now we are separated and soon to be (best guess) divorced. Looking back I wish we hadn't waited and so does my wife. Would have saved a lot of heart break. Personally I'm glad my first time was with someone I loved (as much as you can know what love is at 14), and not a one night stand or something but each to their own. Your body and mind, your choice.

It is something that is worth waiting.

Are your parents Christians?

To be honest as long as your safe and consensual why wait? It's too fun lol

Not important at all so long as protection is involved and you both consent :D

What you do is up to you lovely lady. If you want to wait or party like a rockstar

It's hard to answer this. I waited and sometimes I wish I hadn't...

Its worth waiting.