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Majority of people you'll meet above the age of 15 (hell, even lower) will have some sort of baggage. THAT baggage in a way, has made them who they are.. that thing that you like? That thing that attracted you to them in the first place just may have resulted from that "baggage".
I just had what will go down in my history books as a particularly bad date. I opened up about a rough patch in my life and his answer was... "I knew it. 'Banging' girl like you .. to be single? You had to have some baggage."
Wow. Just wow.
Reemar
31-35, F
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SomeMichGuy 路 M
...ok. So he jumped to a backhanded compliment...fun guy.

Idiot.

Should have said sthg like, "Wow...that's really rough. I am sorry you went through that. A really banging girl like you should have no problem attracting quality guys, and a quality guy will understand where you have been & support you however you need it, to help you get past it, if you need a shoulder to cry/lean on, whatever." [Then he hugs you, firmly, and warmly.]
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SW-User
I agree with your view. Experiences are what makes people different and interesting. It doesn't matter what someone went through in the past. What matters is how they managed to get through it and come out stronger. That is inspirational, not problematic.
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Reemar 路 31-35, F
@SW-User right.. thank you :)
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SW-User
@Reemar In fact, I'll take a woman with issues (past or current) over anyone who's lived her entirely life effortlessly any time.
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SW-User
Lol! What a star that guy is (not). You should have said "That's funny because I could see straight away why you're single".
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SW-User
@Reemar He was a clown. Almost everyone has baggage unless they've lived the most charmed life possible.
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Reemar 路 31-35, F
@SW-User people seem to looking for this idea of perfection... it's just crazy. But good luck to him i guess
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SW-User
@Reemar People want superficial, more like it. They want a cardboard cutout of a person that they can wheel out when it suits them and put back in the cupboard when it doesn't.
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HoraceGreenley 路 56-60, M
Sounds like a
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xRedx 路 M
Seems immature to me. Some people are narrow minded like that and will miss out on what could've changed their lives.
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RenaissanceMan
Be careful. They're many Boys in mens bodies. At any age.
Good point you made馃槈
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DarlingSelah 路
That's rude but definitely stop opening up to strange men . 馃槵
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MURD3RM0NK3Y 路 26-30, M
I guess he ruined his chance with you.
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Reemar 路 31-35, F
@MURD3RM0NK3Y needless to say...yes
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raysam363 路 31-35, F
He sounds smooth as sandpaper.
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Reflection2 路 36-40, M
How did you replied to him? 馃榿
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Ryannnnnn 路 31-35, M
Very smooth 馃槑
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DDonde 路 31-35, M
Probably should have left that one in his head. 馃槵
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Reemar 路 31-35, F
@DDonde Nah I'm glad he said it.. right before that moment he seemed like a decent guy.. then that slipped out and I started noticing all these things from before.. he was putting up this front seemingly to impress me
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