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If a friend ignores your messages (you can see online that they are not busy), would you just leave it be?

My friend has been doing this quite a lot lately. Occasionally she will reply but often she wont. Fair enough if they dont know what to say, but it kind of hurts. I also gave them an online membership for something as a gift so we can play a game together (was a way to spend time together during lockdown)...asked them to let me know when they are playing so we can play...even just once together...they haven't.

These things on their own arent a big deal, but it's just all the times added together, I've felt a bit ignored. I've just kind of tried to leave it, if they dont want to chat that's up to them. 😅 Chances are they also forgot.
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curiosi · 61-69, F
I am in incredible pain. No one knows this as I always say I am fine. The pain gets so bad at times that I can't do many things. Sometimes on here I will get a message and the pain is deep, I can't think about how to respond so I answer questions to distract myself from the pain. Many times I will get chewed out for it. If I tell them I am in pain they have no understanding that I am answering questions because it is something I can do, messaging, not so much. See if it were them that isn't how they would handle it.