We each build up our " worth of self "
1. To build up self worth, is our life job for each one. This has nothing to do with the body or body identity. To do with, dark hair, dark eyes, long hair, big but. The body is just that a body.
2. How you conduct you, is your under your own command, under your direction.
3. What you pay attention to, will become your focus. So if you think others have time to bitch about you, or talk about you. Then you are insecure.
4. To take personal what people say, then you will always be a victim.
When you are secure in who you are, then that at-home-in-you, is a state that no one will ever invade. Secure you, then no matter your circumstances, no one will upset you, as you are you. Your clothes, are cloths, a cover for the cover of a body. Means nothing in the no-thing.
To be
To be with life as it is..... (not a should be this way or that way )