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I Was Ditched

I wanted to hang out with a guy yesterday my profile had pictures he knew what I looked like and he picked me up and right when I got into the car he asked if I got gas money even though before that I told him I was homeless so I think if I did have money he would have robbed me because he drove me to a place saying it was his house he got out and left the car running and I got out and he hurried jumped in his car and sped off my legs feet and ankles are back swollen and I had to walk a mile or more back home which was painful I wanted to cry I felt humiliated and he told me in text that he's sorry that he didn't know I was that ugly and then he blocked me before I could reply back 😔
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xSharp · 31-35, M
i dont mean to sound rude, but what did you really expect to come of this? if your homeless and if your pics were so attractive online then do you really think he would have helped you out of the "goodness of his heart" ? dont put yourself at disadvantage with random people..

and p.s. its the national average is to be able to run a mile in around 10 minutes non-competitively for a healthy person so you may want to work on that.
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@xSharp: I wanted to have sex I guess I was stupid in thinking a younger guy would want anything to do with me
xSharp · 31-35, M
@BlackAphrodite: and if your going around telling strangers your homeless you may run into one looking for people no one will go looking for if they disappear, if you know what i mean.. think before you act..
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@xSharp: first off ! I stated in my post that I have swollen ankles feet and legs i didn't know he was gonna ditch me and he didn't give me an indication of not wanting me in his car he invited me in his car you're acting like this is my fault and I don't just tell people I'm homeless I tell them I'm homeless but with my parents so stop judging me
xSharp · 31-35, M
@BlackAphrodite: did you take one of those pics that "compliment" yourself? because if thats the case he most likely felt like you were falsely advertising so in a way yes it is kinda your fault and i dont mean to sound shallow but he clearly was, i always look for inner beauty but i also look for motivation to be healthy and become the best possible version of yourself, this is reality we live in and world class body builder probably wont date someone who sits on the couch all day.. trust me, you need someone to tell the truth once in a while, for your own good.
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@xSharp: 🤦🏾‍♀️ You don't know me you don't know my name or my story so you sit here and judge me for my appearance and my flaws in life because of the size of my body and the pictures I take I never said I was perfect nobody said everyone on earth is perfect we all commit sin we all have flaws we all commit some kind of crime we all don't meet beauty requirements but everyone has a piece of something in them that makes them unique and beautiful in their own way but people are so blinded by flaws in a person they never get to see the true beauty in a person they judge like what you're doing now and I bet you if you told me something about yourself I wouldn't judge you
xSharp · 31-35, M
@BlackAphrodite: i used to be just like you! i was judged and i took their criticism and used it constructively! they were not being judgmental just to be mean! i really did have messy greasy hair and i wore baggy cloths to hide the fact i was skinny as a noodle, so i listened to what they said, i took some pride in my health and appearance and now everything is fine, i can wear proper fitting cloths and i dont have to take pics at ridiculous angles just to look attractive anymore. :) just make an effort thats all im saying, youll feel great that you did it, you own it to yourself to do this. noone can hand it to you you ll have to push yourself and want it.
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@xSharp: what you're saying doesn't mean a damn thing to me I hope you know that
xSharp · 31-35, M
@BlackAphrodite: but why not? dont you want to better yourself? you will live longer and have a much better quality of life both mentally physically AND emotionally. i promise you! you can prevent disease before it happens by exercising.
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@xSharp: how does it feel to have a person tell you you're not perfect that you don't qualify as a person because you dress a certain way you talk a certain way how does it feel to have a person say you're not good enough because you chose how to look you know what pisses me off is you let a person change you because what they said effected you so you went along with it so what I'm saying is I'm not letting you tell me what I'm suppose to be I'm my own person it's my choice to be who I am if I want to be fat let me if I want to die from being over weight let me if I feel it's necessary to change. My lifestyle I'll change it !
xSharp · 31-35, M
@BlackAphrodite: if you want to be fat then fine but dont be upset if supermodels are not chomping at the bit to date you. im just trying to help.
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@xSharp: you know how ignorant you sound even skinny people aren't perfect it doesn't matter if you're a size 0 or a size 20
xSharp · 31-35, M
@BlackAphrodite: oh yes it does, obesity kills almost as much as smoking, so it does matter actually. define ignorant for me..
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@xSharp: go fuck yourself
xSharp · 31-35, M
@BlackAphrodite: i would if i could.. stop resisting fact.
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@xSharp: stop being a fucking prick
xSharp · 31-35, M
@BlackAphrodite: please explain to me what i have done to be a "fucking prick" so that i can stop for you.
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
Everything you're saying you judged me every since I posted this damn thing @xSharp:
xSharp · 31-35, M
@BlackAphrodite: the world wont change just for you and your religion, people judge end of story.. dont like it? then make honest judgments about yourself and do something to change. im out peace ✌
BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F
@xSharp: who the fuck said I had a religious all I'm saying is people shouldn't judge 🤔 Maybe you should ask yourself this question "do I really need to tell someone how to live?"
xSharp · 31-35, M
@BlackAphrodite: you have ZERO HEARTS stop fishing for sympathy, you will get none as long as you continue to refuse to fix the problem.. face facts or leave me alone but i will not sit idly by while someone complains that some guy ditched them for LYING ABOUT BEING HOMELESS to avoid pitching in for gas right after giving them false expectations about your appearance and allowing him to believe it right up until you jump into their car because god knows you wouldnt just get out if they asked you nicely. and then you tried to publicly crucify me but that backfired on you as well because you did not consider the fact that it made you look spiteful selfish and immature and god forbid anyone ever calls you out on it because you are a narcissist as well thinking that you can neglect yourself for your entire life and some handsome prince is supposed to come along and just sweep you off your swollen feet despite your clear health problems.. its just like i told you earlier, think before you act! otherwise you only end up making a fool out of yourself.. so go ahead and post more screenshots of my perfectly sound logic, and for the last time i am not judging you! this is all common sense!