how do i decline someone borrowing money? i have autism so i have trouble asserting myself. she keeps on pushing me that i let her borrow money
26-30, F
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Oneofthestormboys · 100+, M
This must be very stressful for you.
I suggest that as have autism and may not be lucky enough to be assertive in conversation, to put how you feel in writing to the person in question (email). In this way, you can avoid the spontaneity in verbal conversations, be far more concise in how you feel and also establish an audit trail for the future if the request becomes overly invasive.
This is just my advice, and what I’d do in your position.
Take care x
I suggest that as have autism and may not be lucky enough to be assertive in conversation, to put how you feel in writing to the person in question (email). In this way, you can avoid the spontaneity in verbal conversations, be far more concise in how you feel and also establish an audit trail for the future if the request becomes overly invasive.
This is just my advice, and what I’d do in your position.
Take care x