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I'm Tired Of Being Married And Single

I've been married 10 years but the past few have been hard. My wife barely talks to me anymore. She doesn't sleep with me or help with our children at all. I miss the way things were and don't understand what I've done wrong. I'm a good faithful man, a good father and provide for my family. I'm at a lose

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SW-User

Have you guys talked about this...? Like, one day you can tell her "I miss the way things were before..." and take from there...

Edginggirl · 36-40, F

@SW-User I use to try. And she just said she needed her space and I gladly gave it to her. But its been almost two years of this and nothing has changed or gotten better. I am willing to give her time I'm just exhausted from working and doing everything with the kids plus cleaning. I feel like a single dad. I probably sound selfish and that's not my point. Just looking to vent a little.

SW-User

@Edginggirl No, you don't sound selfish at all... Seems like your wife is taking advantage of your good-will and sense of responsibility. An acquaintance of mine went through a similar thing, he always tried his best, helping with the kids and the house, being all understanding etc, but his wife was an abusive psychopath... He just couldn't see it because she convinced him [i]he[/i] was the problem...