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I Grew Up In a Large Family

I grew up in a traditional large family - I am the youngest of ten, five sisters and four brothers. It was the way in our church community
Mievain · 26-30, M
Hey. Sorry, I'm correcting that faith in the Lord Jesus saves, nothing should be added to that :)
JeanAnna · F
I also grew up in a large traditional, religious family. I'm the youngest of ten, myself. The oldest son was killed when he was 18, and the baby after me died at birth. I have 5 sisters, two living brothers. We went to church every Sunday, Wednesday evening and Sunday night. My mother taught Sunday School most of her life.

It was a good life.
TradWifeandMother · 41-45, F
@JeanAnna Yes, I agree, a good life. And I went on to have a large family. So sorry to hear about losing your brother when he was so young. That is really tragic. And yes, we would have been an even larger family but for two post-natal sadnesses.
JeanAnna · F
@TradWifeandMother Having come from a large family, I chose to have just two sons.
TradWifeandMother · 41-45, F
@JeanAnna Not surprising, and your privilege, though these things often through generations
helenS · 36-40, F
How beautiful! I grew up in a very traditional conservative family, like you — but unlike you, I have only one sister. But many cousins. We had to abide by so many rules, it's almost unbelievable today.
TradWifeandMother · 41-45, F
@helenS Yes. It was very traditional and patriarchal. The brothers took priority, for instance, regardless of age. Traditional clothes, rules and punishment, all very biblical
helenS · 36-40, F
@TradWifeandMother It's all so different from the world as it is today. My father and my uncles were really "heads of household". They defined the rules (in accordance with traditions), and what would happen if we did not follow those rules.
TradWifeandMother · 41-45, F
@helenS Still largely the way it is with me, which makes me sound as if I come from a time warp, but it works for me
TradWifeandMother · 41-45, F
From the number of replies I have received, this clearly remains a far more common way of life than society and the media would have us think and in so many ways it is as least as life-giving and healthy as the so-called enlightened way of broken marriages, fractured relationships, family discord and disappearance of respect. I am glad I grew up in my very large family and that I was so wonderfully and firmly guided by my father and by the church to a marriage partner who has been and remains my rock. I am similarly glad that my life has been one of home-making and child-rearing... again, the natural order regardless of what people try to say
SW-User
I am one of 5 girls. We also had 6 brothers. A very lively household but kept in line by a no nonsense father. I’m extremely thankful for the way I was brought up. We attended church three times a week. Still do actually
Rambler · M
Many mouths to feed
TradWifeandMother · 41-45, F
@Rambler As the youngest, I kind of learned from my older sisters, so that when I, too, was married at a young age and started my life as a mother, I was well prepared for my maternal duties, though, as was our way, rather less prepared for the intermediate wifely duties
Rambler · M
@TradWifeandMother It sounds as though you have had, and are leading, a full and rewarding life
TradWifeandMother · 41-45, F
@Rambler Yes, it is indeed full and rewarding. I am doing what I was made to be
Dez580 · 61-69, M
Growing up we were unique in our church community, it was just my sister and I , whereas most families were 4-7 children, we were often jealous of our friends having so many siblings

 
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