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I Love Gentlemen


I believe they still exist but they are few and far between.
Kookey · 56-60, F
They are a dying generation sadly.
littlepinklotus · 41-45, F
@Kookey yes they are. 😢
Kookey · 56-60, F
The gentlemen still out there are priceless. Easy to be a lady around a gentleman. Mutual respect. @littlepinklotus
littlepinklotus · 41-45, F
@Kookey thank you sweetie. Ditto.
chrisCA · M
I would like to think I am one.
littlepinklotus · 41-45, F
@chrisCA 😊
Pineapple · 100+, F
my ex bf would do things like that and although i appreciated the gesture, it kinda made me feel uncomfortable. i'm not sure why. i'm not at all the crazy SJW feminist "I CAN DO IT MYSELF!" type, i just feel awkward having such simple things done for me. each to their own i guess.
littlepinklotus · 41-45, F
@Pineapple yes to each their own. I think as long as you don't bite their heads off for it your good. But I love it. Makes me feel special I guess.
Tracos · 51-55, M
and underappreciated
littlepinklotus · 41-45, F
@Tracos very much so.
SW-User
Yes! I find this to be all too true, especially these days. Finally nice to find a post I can relate to, thanks. :)
SW-User
@littlepinklotus Most do not, sadly. And most do not even bear the knowledge of what it means to be one. If you really love someone, you'll give them the best of you, and vice versa. It should come naturally to men really.. I think it's more a matter of people have forgotten the true meaning of love. Theses days this term is so watered down and overused, it could mean anything.. :/
littlepinklotus · 41-45, F
@SW-User Yes that's true. But even love aside how a gentlemen behaves when a woman walks into the room should matter. This comedian said when a lady walks into a room a real man will adjust his behavior. I love that. You don't see that anymore. Men cuss around women and they think its okay but then again we as women have allowed it. I can't explain this right to the younger generations but it shouldn't be okay. We as women should want a little more respect. I don't know when all the lines got so crossed. Men should not be faulted for treating a woman like a lady and a woman should want to be treated as such. Maybe i'm wrong.
SW-User
@littlepinklotus You are far from wrong. And I agree. We live in very different times.. The comedian has a fair point as well, it's not just a charade or an act a man puts up. It should be part of his character. Really it all boils down to mutual respect, and showing kindness as well as courtesy for one another. I agree with you, and the gentlemen of this world are like diamonds in the rough.. Few, but well worth the find.
*tips fedora* m'lady
@littlepinklotus If you look into a lot of the legislation being passed especially in Canada it would shock you. And no we shouldn't give it up but eventually we'll just be those old people who are living in the past.."Oh don't mind Grandma she still uses gender specific language she can't help it it's how she was raised" xD
littlepinklotus · 41-45, F
@MrBlueGuy blah! I don't care lol. I rather be thought of as weird or old fashioned then loose myself to what we have become.
@littlepinklotus Haha I agree it's important to always speak truth regardless of how unpopular it becomes if it's your truth then it's worth defending.
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
Yes...and some women give you shit for it
littlepinklotus · 41-45, F
@HoraceGreenley I will never understand that. I wasn't raised that way.
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
@littlepinklotus I don't understand it either
black4white · 56-60, M
Just do those things for her because you are brought up that way

 
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