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I Need Friends

I Do.... Growing up none of my sp called frienships everlasted. I never really had that person or those people that I can openly talk to about my feelings. I recently found one person thats close but even with her I cant just say everything. I have noone to go out with or really talk pn the phone with when I really need it most. There are many times I feel so alone. But its how my life is I guess

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quieter

So who are you there for, and how might you 'draw' on the emotional bank account you have earned by helping them? Who do you share good as well as bad things with, and how often? A friendship does require some give and take, on both sides. And the give and take needs to be good as well as bad times. You sound really down right now, who is there for you when you are up? You may be surprised to find they can be equally good company now, if for no other reason than to remind you of the up times. Start slow, build up that trust and then see how it is to have a friend through thick and thin.

exodusattack

If your "friends" aren't equally good company, then they are worthless to you and aren't friends, even acquaintances. And you need to be yourself and find people who like you for who you are, if you change to please others, you will never be truly happy.

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