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I Want Affection, Closeness, Intimacy

This shall be a chosen resolution... Well not entirely, but I will make an attempt to find it. Or open up a path in my life to allow it to find me.
It has been long enough... And I'm ready.
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SW-User
Just open your eyes to what's in front of you. Make sure that your decision isn't rushed. Good luck.
RedRhapsody · 31-35, F
Which is absolutely nothing.. Hence why I said what I said 😑
SW-User
@RedRhapsody: I simply meant; don't let your decision be rushed. Wait, use your eyes and find the right person. Not just the first that catches your eye.
RedRhapsody · 31-35, F
You're basically telling me things that I'm already aware of. I've been in a relationship before, I KNOW what to do.. The point is finding the right person.
SW-User
Which is were you failed in the past. Obviously. I meant no disrespect, nor anything else that seems to have annoyed you. Simply saying that the need to not be lonely can cause misjudgement and can make even the sanest of people make the wrong decision.
RedRhapsody · 31-35, F
@LittleMystery: Since you seem to think you know what happened, especially after just meeting me, it simply failed due to a conflict of interests and I will leave it at that.. I am simply venting thoughts and ideas as I usually do, not asking for advice....
SW-User
@RedRhapsody: Didn't say I knew. Simply stated that you failed at knowing what to do. Once again, I meant no offence, I was simply stating facts. Perhaps next time you should state that you're not in a happy mood and that instead of simply writing your thoughts in a journal or a diary, you decided that writing them on the internet was a better idea... because that wouldn't cause anybody to say something. Polite or otherwise.
RedRhapsody · 31-35, F
@LittleMystery: .. Yet despite not knowing the situation in it's entirety or anything about me period, you continue to insinuate that I failed somewhere or that I would rush into making a decision, along with other assumptions that you have made about me just from seeing one post. And my mood is not germain to this post in any way shape or form, though I will continue to use this site however I so choose.. Whether I'm in an elated state or pissed enough to bite the head off of a fucking cobra. Why? Because that is what it is for: To ask questions, post stories, and vent). But I can offer a solution for you... If you simply do not like it, you are MORE than welcome to leave and move on.
SW-User
@RedRhapsody: Once again. You even managed to make me sigh. I didn't insinuate, shit. You said that you knew what to do, you said that your last relationship didn't work out. If you knew what to do than point b wouldn't be capable of following point a.... ... ... Skip all of the shit I should say and simply jump to the point were you, ms hypocritcal, are amusing. You say that I assume, and yet it is now you that's making assumptions. I didn't say that I liked, nor did I say I disliked this site. I simply stated, a fact once again, that if you write something on the internet, something is going to be said in response. Now, if you'll excuse me, I have more important things to do than continuing to talk to you.
RedRhapsody · 31-35, F
@LittleMystery: Growing apart or having a sudden shift in interest (Mainly on my side) is not failure.. It just happens. So how are you jumping to that conclusion, let alone thinking that I would make a quick and irrational decision? And I obviously left the situation, so yes as I stated before.. I DO know how to conduct myself when it comes to relationships, because common sense when tell someone to leave if they are not happy. So look at the post again: Am I asking advice on what I should about finding love, or am I merely AFFIRMING that I want to?? Because if you truly read it, I did state opening up a part of myself to opportunity.
There is a difference between stating ideas and asking for help... Because if I wanted it, I would usually ask someone far older 😒
And finally, I was referring to my mood as I use this site.. If you don't like it, then go. No one is forcing you to remain, and no one forced you to comment.
mistywillow · 31-35, M
@RedRhapsody: a-yo red. .why you wasting energy on these little relationship gurus that seem to know you better than yourself ?
RedRhapsody · 31-35, F
@mistywilloww: You're right, hun.. I shouldn't. But all is well now, I'm feeling ok 😊 lol