It's not easy, in fact, It's very hard work that requires a lot of patience, tolerance and understanding for the child's needs. Not everyone is cut out to be a parent as children are pain laboring and you don't always get appreciated or respected and they play one against each others parents, they are stressful, demanding, very little time and privacy for your self, sleepiness nights, dirty nappies, your home is always a mess cos of them trashing it and you pick up after them, they are disrespectful and in time, it's all worth it as they children also bring you joy and happiness. You may regret not having children in the future.