I Feel I Am Annoying

My friends find me annoying because I’m so passive and can be passive aggressive, don’t express my own opinion, too agreeable, let them do all the work in planning sometimes and also I am too nice. Even my own family find me very annoying even though they love me. My best friend said I need to stop being so passive aggressive and it’s frankly very annoying and HAVE MY OWN OPINION. Stop agreeing with everything.