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I Received A Life Changing Experience

My marriage started out perfect! We really WERE happy. The picture perfect family, two daughters, two careers that started from the bottom and had gone far. We bought a house in one of the best school districts in a neighborhood so safe we never locked our doors.

Everyone wanted to BE us. We had bowling on Sunday, softball every Friday and went out dancing Tuesday and Thursday. Friends and family we're always at our house because we had a game room that had more games, toys and liqueur than any bar around! We had the life! And we worked really, REALLY hard for everything we had. I graduated college with honors, he ended up TEACHING the apprenticeship program he went through! And the best part about ALL of it.... Is that we did it together, supporting each other the whole time! We were connected on a level most people couldn't even fathom! Nobody would let us be on the same team when we had game night because if we were put in the same team, we annihilated every time! We were living the perfect fairytale life. He was my Superman and I was his perfect, loving wife.

Don't get me wrong, things could sure get tough at times, but we weathered every storm together... "Just the two of us" (our wedding song)

We were going through the roughest patch we had seen to date. It started in September 08, The universe began cooking up it's master plan. Difficult, trying situations began relentlessly pouring down on my world, one after another, all piling on top of each other, till I was barely keeping my head above water!

Interesting how the first beam was circulated through the Large Hadron Collider at CERN on my exhusband's birthday September 10th, 2008... Which happens to be EXACTLY when EVERYTHING in my life for shaken up, flipped around, and turned into something resembling Bizzaro World!

I think the LHC opened up a new dimension and turned my Superman into Bizzaro.
Typicalpisces · 41-45, F
I didn't want to get into the horrible details... But since there seems to be so much confusion, I guess it might be necessary....

After September 08:
He became very abusive, both physically and emotionally. He became so consumed with debaucherous sex that he created a whole new identity. With a completely with a different name, he signed up for multiple dating sites. He screwed hookers in the bed that we shared while I was at work... He drank, did drugs, gambled, etc.

Things got so bad that he eventually tried to kill me in front of our them 6 year old daughter!
updown2020 · 61-69, M
@Typicalpisces What really well I hope you sent him packing and got a restraining order order and changed all the locks even the alarm codes if you have a security system. I have a friend you got married to this guy and right up to the honeymoon he was an angel but once the came back he turned into a monster he was mentally ill and started telling her what she could and could not do and hit her once so after seven month of marriage that was it the were divorced.
Typicalpisces · 41-45, F
@updown2020 I did divorce him and testified in his criminal trial... He now has a felony DV and I have a 10 year restraining order:-)
updown2020 · 61-69, M
@Typicalpisces Well I guess he is in jail?
JollyLily · F
I am a little confused about your story. I don't get what happened. You're describing this fairytale life you had and how it ended but you didn't tell us how things turned out the way they did.
SW-User
Idk, the introduction was too elaborate, the gist of the story was lost. It's either you tell your happily ever after life or how it turned out bad. You can dissect the whole post into two. Imho.
1GHOST · M
um ..ok how the LHC fit in with his change ?
Was he working on it ?
updown2020 · 61-69, M
Okay so what happened?
GoldenWorm · 51-55, M
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congru

 
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