I Am a Military Girlfriend

Personally, Id be very sceptical of that whole situation. Alot of these military guys are players and they have one at every stop so to speak. That being said if you like him and you think he's a good guy, take him for a test run. It never hurt anybody to give it a try.

It would be easy to be negative about this.
If you don't spend any time together in real life. How could you possibly know what sort of partnership you'd make?
Another point to remember is that servicemen have a certain state of mind. That not everybody can cope with in civvy street. Even serving personnel themselves!
They're being asked to do things and go places you and I know nothing about. And that's bound to change a person!
But. Assuming you know this stuff anyway, why shouldn't you get together and see if you fit?

I just like to warn women. I come from a huge military family and my ex-fiance was military. There's alot that goes on during deployments and on bases that nobody really talks about and you never really learn until you participate in the lifestyle. They're under alot of pressure and they do alot of stupid things sometimes. Please test the waters before you dive in without a life vest. Its definitely not for everyone.

Oh I know he keeps telling me not to worry that he's done this before , an that he more worried about me which I don't want him thinking about me he could get hurt or something

That comes with time. They have to do some scary things at times and they dont want the woman they care about to see that part of them. After awhile they need somehwere to let it out so they start sharing with you. ALot of the time they are under orders not to share. Theyll still tell you if youre alone and they trust you.

Yeah it sucks. I was worried the whole time my ex was in afghanistan. It didnt help that I was pregnant at the time. i coudlnt really tell him how worried I was becaus they dont need that on their plate. They have to believ in themselves and their abilities. you just have to trust that they've been trained well, and will come home.

Thanks queen ,
Think I will he's already got the ring, I was surprised one day out of the blue he asked my ring size , an after a month he said he told me he told his mom all about me an had told her that I was the one, I cried all day , no ones ever done that for me

Goodboy. She isn't military, she loves a man who is in the military. She is worried about him.

You should stop now. You are becoming troublesome again.

Ya he's told that a lot that he can't tell me because he's speacil forces an it's classified he's group always doing night patrol which scares me

I totally get that sometimes I want him to open up an talk to me but he won't , he says he can't that's what kills me

Thanks everyone I really hope i meet up with him soon