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I Am Sick of Being Single

being single sucks anyday . I sure its the same for girls too . but as far as my experiences go, girls are too afraid to give chances . some want everything to be perfect and are too afraid to let go . they act so frail and that creates complications everywhere . especially in my region , where I live , girls are shy , they are more difficult to approach . cmon get to know someone then decide ! stop being afraid and give chances. people here diss the idea of a friendly date , too skeptical. I have been in relationships, serious ones too . those girls always had very long term goals from the start . without even understanding the significant other .
A person's character is a lesser desirable trait ...although that is changing now...
So currently I am single now and will be until I find someone who has a similar mentality..
we always need someone we could talk to ..since we don't ..forums like these come up.
to all my single friends here ...Be open and don't keep any thing to yourself ..a person either likes you .or they don't. roll with the ones that do like you. and eventually your day would come .

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lovingfall

What do you mean when you say "A person's character is a lesser desirable trait"?

souravmisra · 26-30, M

what I meant was people would sometimes just go with the physical traits , or money ...u see..gold diggers...people hardly wait to see what is under that skin of the other one .

lovingfall

Now that, is so very true. I couldn't agree more. However, having said that, to some degree the physical traits do matter. As much as people say they don't, their actions suggest otherwise. So on a scale of 1-10, one being low and ten being high, where would you place physical traits and where would you put character?

souravmisra · 26-30, M

I agree with you ..I do ..I mean I would definitely want my GF to be at least decent looking....say at least a 4 or a 5 on the good looking scale and a 8 or a 9 on the character scale because if a relationship works out for me ....looks would go out the window after a certain age ....and character would be the actual support one would need .

lovingfall

Again, so very true. Character is really the only thing out of the two that will last. What would be your number one character trait that you look for in a girl? And as far as physically speaking, have you found yourself looking for a "type" or being in relationships with people who have certain physical characteristics?

souravmisra · 26-30, M

I look for an understanding girl with a good sense of morality . I'm not that much into types you know...I keep my mind open :)

lovingfall

Morality is always important. And good, open mindedness is always nice:)

souravmisra · 26-30, M

that's a lot about me ..what about you ? what are you looking for ?

lovingfall

I'm also not really into any particular type. As far as character, I look for similar values, respect, and eventually, someone who is loyal lol.

souravmisra · 26-30, M

Alright ... you'll find him..

lovingfall

Hahaha as I'm sure you'll find her:)