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I Hate Getting the Silent Treatment

This is so childish. My ex was like that and I have not got a clue why he married me.

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SW-User

For me, I prefer that than someone screaming at me, throwing things, and calling me names.

revenant · F

@SW-User the problem is the silent treatment will lead to resentment, frustration, repression and when repression occurs : boum !

revenant · F

@SW-User but yeah..if someone cannot control themselves and act like a 3 year old..sounds like the total opposite here !

SW-User

@revenant Does he talk to you after he calms down or does he not calm down but grows more resentful?

revenant · F

@SW-User does not talk at all. Not a word.

SW-User

@revenant That's not good. I'd just tell him when he's ready to have a calm & rational discussion, to let me know. Then, put him on ignore and do what I need to do for myself.

revenant · F

@SW-User he would be OK with that lol, no problem..for years !😳 We are divorcing now anyway.