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I Love Kids And I Want To Have 4 Or 5 Kids

I'm all about woman doing what they want in life, so hopefully you can all find it to respect my opinion.
I'm young, but I really, really want to be a wife with lots of kids someday. 5, ideally. I want to stay home, cook, clean, care for my young ones, and have a husband. Is that weird to want in this modern day society of empowering woman to go out and do jobs, and care for their kids themselves? I support any woman who wants that, but it's just not for me. Am I going crazy?

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Mamapolo2016 · F

No, but you are marching to a different drummer, and will likely have to defend your choices. (Not that I think you SHOULD have to.)

Contrary to what many of us think, modern life is not about choice, it’s about conformity.

A few caveats...a lot of kids will require a good income, or a willingness to live without luxuries. It will also require partners who are committed to finishing what they started. Marry carefully, and marry well.

Maddies · 22-25, F

@Mamapolo2016 Thank you! Yes, I would never have kids that I couldn't afford to truly care for. Thank you for your comment. (:

VeronicaJane

If I might suggest, it may be best to go to university or prepare yourself to make a living. Then as you marry and have children, you would be better positioned to support your children should a terrible accident befall your beloved... or he ends up to be less that you had imagined.

Finding yourself alone, having to provide for children is not the time to train for a career.

Tukudo · 41-45, M

You need sufficient money to take care of that much kids

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Tukudo · 41-45, M

Okay. when you going to get marry?@Maddies

Maddies · 22-25, F

@Tukudo As young as possible, hopefully. I want to get it right first time, but my aim is to be married before I am 25. (I'm 18 at the moment)

Tukudo · 41-45, M

Okay. @Maddies

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