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I Will Teach My Children Things My Parents Never Taught Me

When and if I do have children. I will take it upon myself to be nothing like my parents.
The parents that were supposed to be there for me, and love me, no matter what. Were the same parents who shunned me and try to “fix me” and called me “broken” for being bisexual. They didn’t understand that I was, and AM the same person they raised, and who I am attracted to, even though it is a part of who am, doesn’t define me as a person completely.

When I have children, I’ll teach them that everyone is different, and we should not judge, for that is not our job in this world. And we should be caring and compassionate even to those who are different from us, even to the ones that we think we have no connection or anything in common with. Even the ones who I don’t agree with. Because even if we think we have nothing in common, and we could never possibly understand, at the end of the day we are all human. And even if don’t understand, that doesn’t give us the right to shun people, and dehumanize each other for our differences..
beastmaster · 46-50, M
So true, I can't understand how parents can be like this, we are still the same person that they brought up.
Very wise for such a young age❤️
SoFine · 46-50, F
1. Dysfunctional family life - is normal. Most are 99%
2. They are a product of this dysfunction, they learnt from their parents. Generation to generation.
3. If you do have children, they too, will evaluate you. Even if you think tbat you can do better, life is constant change. Your challenges will be different, yet your children will judge you.

These 2 life tools are for you to establish for you,
A. Your self worth
B. Your self love

How you develop your worth, is your job for life. To take healthy steps, is in your hands, it's your responsibility. The one you command is you.
Then be tbe best for you, as your most important relationship, is the one you have with you.

You are your true home, then treat you with worth, treat you with sanity.
Montanaman · M
👏 I applaud you. 👍👍🤗
SW-User
I wish you great amounts of luck with that.

 
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